Gitty Hecht on Instagram: "Humans are hardwired to recognize familiarity over what may be the wiser option. . If you’ve been in a relationship - particularly long term - whether it be parental, spousal or otherwise - that was unsafe or toxic in some way, you may be unconsciously searching for that familiarity, that rush, those highs and lows in your relationships. Your nervous system may not recognize healthy attachment. . When I started dating my now husband, Rabbi @mordechaihecht - he showed m