Get this: s~xual pain is not a sign that your desire is broken. It’s often a sign that your nervous system doesn’t believe it’s safe. When your body expects pain, it braces first. That happens before any desire can even show up. That tension shuts down pathways of pleasure. It hijacks your ability to connect emotionally and physically. And over time, it rewires your expectations of intimacy. So when you tell yourself, “I just have low lib*d0” or “I’m never going to feel desire again,” it’s not t

273K views · 1.2K reactions | Avoidants have a deep fear of intimacy which causes them to build walls and isolate themselves. This causes them to only have surface level relationships and the more closer you try to get to them, the further away they will push you. | Luke Hawkins - Neuro Transformation Therapy | Facebook

Fear of Intimacy